Quite the utilitarian title, I know.
Last night Husband and I had our first dinner party at the new place. Arguably, the first dinner part ever. When we lived in Austell, we had a few parties but we lived so far out in the suburbs, I had friends say that they couldn't make it.
It was a rather grown-up affair. We invited 2 other couples: the friends we went to the Braves game with last Friday (the Buffy fans) and one of the other attorneys at Husband's firm, and his wife, who is also an attorney. A former Assistant US Attorney General, in fact.
Who could I invite who would get along with these people? I invited a guy who is an attorney who is also an executive director of a nonprofit organization, which is how I know him. More importantly, he's a really personable guy who could talk to anyone. However I have not yet met his wife who apparently is on the shy side. The dinner party was kind of a last minute thing and they didn't have much notice for getting a baby sitter. Plus his mom just went into hospice and so he's not quite in the social mood. Next time I'll give them more notice.
And, we actually ate at the dining room table.
Husband set the menu, which had a Spanish theme. There were 2 kinds of paella: seafood and chicken, an assortment of cheeses, salami, and preserved seafood things (okay, tins of mussel and octopus), blanched asparagus, and for dessert angel food cake with vanilla ice cream and raspberries. Husband did everything, I just made the sangria.
A happy coincidence: The former AUSAG just got back from visiting their daughter in Spain. She was doing a summer exchange thing. So they brought Spanish wine.
A good time was had by all, and people left at about midnight. Before the Buffy fans left, I lent them my Firefly DVD set. I will convert them yet.
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Thursday, July 23, 2009
Waiting, waiting
Sigh. Still no Buffy. And I'm reading lots of good reviews of Torchwood Season Three. It's the next thing in my Netflix queue, but it doesn't get released until next week.
And so I keep waiting.
And so I keep waiting.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Is it here yet?
Just got a call from the front desk of my condo. I have a package waiting for me.
Oh! Could it be my Buffy videos?!? I hope so. I'm just at the point where I'll find out how Xander and Cordelia get together (thanks Wikipedia and your summary of all 144 episodes). Is that how Wash and Zoe got together?
On Monday, I got together with some other executive directors of nonprofits and I mentioned my BtVS fixation. I mean, I've been staying up until 2 am watching videos and knitting. One of my friends asked "Escapism much?" My answer is "Yes!"
Plus, the guy to plays Xander is such a little cutie. Why not escape to Sunnydale for a few hours?
In other fun news, Husband is inviting people over for dinner on Friday, including the Buffy fans. I'll see if I can't convert them over to the Firefly love too.
Oh! Could it be my Buffy videos?!? I hope so. I'm just at the point where I'll find out how Xander and Cordelia get together (thanks Wikipedia and your summary of all 144 episodes). Is that how Wash and Zoe got together?
On Monday, I got together with some other executive directors of nonprofits and I mentioned my BtVS fixation. I mean, I've been staying up until 2 am watching videos and knitting. One of my friends asked "Escapism much?" My answer is "Yes!"
Plus, the guy to plays Xander is such a little cutie. Why not escape to Sunnydale for a few hours?
In other fun news, Husband is inviting people over for dinner on Friday, including the Buffy fans. I'll see if I can't convert them over to the Firefly love too.
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Enthusiasms
Last night Husband and I went to see the Braves vs. Mets with two friends: one of Husband's former colleagues and her husband. They're Mets fans and we're Braves fans. Actually I'm not really into baseball or sports really, but still take pleasure in noting that the Braves won, 11 to 0. Yes, we trounced them.
They turned out to be huge Buffy and Gaiman fans. They even have the Buffy comics. She even contemplated going to Dragoncon (held in Atlanta over Labor Day weekend) this year but they'll be in Canada at that time.
Friday I had a long lunch with some peers -- people who also head up nonprofit organizations -- and we all commiserated about how tough things are in this economy. For better or for worse, in front of my staff I try to keep an upbeat and realistic front. People know things are uncertain, but I try not to be full of doom and gloom. With my peers, however, I feel I can drop that facade and really say what I think and feel. So while it was nice to have that kind of supportive space, ultimately it was kind of a downer day.
Once we got to the game, thngs looked up. We spent the evening talking about Buffy and a little bit about Firefly. They've seen all the Buffy episodes and only a few Firefly though they liked Serenity. We talked Neil Gaiman. We talked other fantasy and sci fi. It was great. The fact that I accidentally dropped my hotdog just as I got back to my seat and had to get another one did nothing to dampen my spirits.
They're coming over for dinner next week and I'll loan them my copy of Firefly. I will convert them just as Sister converted me. And I also ordered my own (used) copy of Buffy seasons 1 to 7 on Amazon. I had been borrowing them from Brother One's friend, but now, I decided, if I'm staying up until 2am just to watch Buffy, then I really should invest in my own copy. Besides, it was only $116 for all 7 seasons. That's a great deal!
They turned out to be huge Buffy and Gaiman fans. They even have the Buffy comics. She even contemplated going to Dragoncon (held in Atlanta over Labor Day weekend) this year but they'll be in Canada at that time.
Friday I had a long lunch with some peers -- people who also head up nonprofit organizations -- and we all commiserated about how tough things are in this economy. For better or for worse, in front of my staff I try to keep an upbeat and realistic front. People know things are uncertain, but I try not to be full of doom and gloom. With my peers, however, I feel I can drop that facade and really say what I think and feel. So while it was nice to have that kind of supportive space, ultimately it was kind of a downer day.
Once we got to the game, thngs looked up. We spent the evening talking about Buffy and a little bit about Firefly. They've seen all the Buffy episodes and only a few Firefly though they liked Serenity. We talked Neil Gaiman. We talked other fantasy and sci fi. It was great. The fact that I accidentally dropped my hotdog just as I got back to my seat and had to get another one did nothing to dampen my spirits.
They're coming over for dinner next week and I'll loan them my copy of Firefly. I will convert them just as Sister converted me. And I also ordered my own (used) copy of Buffy seasons 1 to 7 on Amazon. I had been borrowing them from Brother One's friend, but now, I decided, if I'm staying up until 2am just to watch Buffy, then I really should invest in my own copy. Besides, it was only $116 for all 7 seasons. That's a great deal!
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Buffy Season One: Whedon and Maeve Binchy
Just finished watching season one of Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Joss Whedon fan, but never watched BtVS so thought I should rectify that.
As a fan of Firefly and now Dollhouse, it's interesting to see how the strong female characters play out in these three different shows and how the male characters relate.
I'm a fan of the Zoe and Wash relationship in Firefly. Zoe's the strong warrior woman who everyone acknowledges can kill you with her pinky. That's part of the appeal for Wash, the pilot. He's also strong with the muscles and all but he's also the laid-back witty one and chooses not to use physical strength most of the time. In the origins episode we see that Zoe really didn't like Wash at first. But other than in that flashback, they're an established married couple.
In Buffy, Xander and Cordelia don't like each other throughout the first season. But in later seasons, they become a couple. I'm looking forward to seeing how that plays out. maybe that's how Zoe and Wash got together. And yes, I know I'm speculating just a bit too much about fictional characters from a show cancelled long ago.
Cordelia makes me think of Adelle Dewitt from Dollhouse. Cordelia's the popular girl who makes fun of Buffy, Willow, and Xander. But in the second to last episode of season one, she turns to Buffy for help and mentions that she's lonely too, but would rather be lonely and popular, rather than lonely and unpopular.
If we think about popularity as power in the high school setting, then in Dollhouse, the parallel is DeWitt head of the Dollhouse. And yet she's also lonely, as is Topher, another powerfcul character. He's the science genious who programs the dolls and yet both DeWitt and Topher had to program dolls to be their lover and friend, respectively.
So far, my favorite Buffy characters are Willow, Xander, and Cordelia. Buffy is the heroine with some of the stock tropes of being the hero: brave, smart, struggling with her destiny as well as being a normal teen. But the secondary characters are the ones who grow the most. Willow goes from smart nerdy sidekick to become a witch, then Dark Willow, and back to good Willow. Xander goes from goofy sidekick to hero, all without gaining any super powers. Cordelia goes from being the mean girl nemesis to being part of the gang. Those story arcs interest me.
In Firefly, my favorite characters are Zoe and Wash, for reasons mentioned above, and Jayne. He's like Cordelia. He's the mercenary who switched sides to join Mal and crew, but he has his own code and priorities. For the right price, he'd sell out the crew and did in Ariel. If the series had continued, it would have been really interesting to see how else the relationship between Jayne and crew would have been tested and or broken. With Cordelia, her character left Buffy to join Angel. Here's another character who switches sides, yet again. Haven't watched any Angel yet, but that's in my Netflix queue too.
On Dollhouse, I'm most interested in Adelle and Topher, for reasons mentioned above, and Sierra and Victor. What are the backstories of those dolls? In the episode Needs, we found out that Sierra became a doll against her will, and that Victor loves her. But what's his story? We didn't get it. And I'd love to see more Alpha, but that's because I have a thing for Alan Tudyk.
By the way, The Park Bench (see my blogroll) is polling for Nerd Man of the Month and I suggested Tudyk. It does my fan girl heart good to see that many others are seconding my Tudyk suggestion.
Back to regularly scheduled blogpost:
I mentioned Maeve Binchy because she takes the same characters and settings and plays them out differently each time. There's always the outsider who may or may not be accepted. In some books s/he is, in others s/he isn't. There's the wise older woman who sees all but doesn't say much. In some books, that works out well, in others it doesn't. And so on.
I know many authors work that way and now that I'm getting in Neil Gaiman, it'll be interesting to see how he works too. What characters, or situations, or values he uses again and again.
eta: note to self -- here's a link to an inteview with Whedon prior to the release of Serenity: http://homepage.mac.com/merussell/iblog/B835531044/C1592678312/E20050916182427/index.html
As a fan of Firefly and now Dollhouse, it's interesting to see how the strong female characters play out in these three different shows and how the male characters relate.
I'm a fan of the Zoe and Wash relationship in Firefly. Zoe's the strong warrior woman who everyone acknowledges can kill you with her pinky. That's part of the appeal for Wash, the pilot. He's also strong with the muscles and all but he's also the laid-back witty one and chooses not to use physical strength most of the time. In the origins episode we see that Zoe really didn't like Wash at first. But other than in that flashback, they're an established married couple.
In Buffy, Xander and Cordelia don't like each other throughout the first season. But in later seasons, they become a couple. I'm looking forward to seeing how that plays out. maybe that's how Zoe and Wash got together. And yes, I know I'm speculating just a bit too much about fictional characters from a show cancelled long ago.
Cordelia makes me think of Adelle Dewitt from Dollhouse. Cordelia's the popular girl who makes fun of Buffy, Willow, and Xander. But in the second to last episode of season one, she turns to Buffy for help and mentions that she's lonely too, but would rather be lonely and popular, rather than lonely and unpopular.
If we think about popularity as power in the high school setting, then in Dollhouse, the parallel is DeWitt head of the Dollhouse. And yet she's also lonely, as is Topher, another powerfcul character. He's the science genious who programs the dolls and yet both DeWitt and Topher had to program dolls to be their lover and friend, respectively.
So far, my favorite Buffy characters are Willow, Xander, and Cordelia. Buffy is the heroine with some of the stock tropes of being the hero: brave, smart, struggling with her destiny as well as being a normal teen. But the secondary characters are the ones who grow the most. Willow goes from smart nerdy sidekick to become a witch, then Dark Willow, and back to good Willow. Xander goes from goofy sidekick to hero, all without gaining any super powers. Cordelia goes from being the mean girl nemesis to being part of the gang. Those story arcs interest me.
In Firefly, my favorite characters are Zoe and Wash, for reasons mentioned above, and Jayne. He's like Cordelia. He's the mercenary who switched sides to join Mal and crew, but he has his own code and priorities. For the right price, he'd sell out the crew and did in Ariel. If the series had continued, it would have been really interesting to see how else the relationship between Jayne and crew would have been tested and or broken. With Cordelia, her character left Buffy to join Angel. Here's another character who switches sides, yet again. Haven't watched any Angel yet, but that's in my Netflix queue too.
On Dollhouse, I'm most interested in Adelle and Topher, for reasons mentioned above, and Sierra and Victor. What are the backstories of those dolls? In the episode Needs, we found out that Sierra became a doll against her will, and that Victor loves her. But what's his story? We didn't get it. And I'd love to see more Alpha, but that's because I have a thing for Alan Tudyk.
By the way, The Park Bench (see my blogroll) is polling for Nerd Man of the Month and I suggested Tudyk. It does my fan girl heart good to see that many others are seconding my Tudyk suggestion.
Back to regularly scheduled blogpost:
I mentioned Maeve Binchy because she takes the same characters and settings and plays them out differently each time. There's always the outsider who may or may not be accepted. In some books s/he is, in others s/he isn't. There's the wise older woman who sees all but doesn't say much. In some books, that works out well, in others it doesn't. And so on.
I know many authors work that way and now that I'm getting in Neil Gaiman, it'll be interesting to see how he works too. What characters, or situations, or values he uses again and again.
eta: note to self -- here's a link to an inteview with Whedon prior to the release of Serenity: http://homepage.mac.com/merussell/iblog/B835531044/C1592678312/E20050916182427/index.html
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Chocolate Box -- need another name
Last night I finished the Chocolate Box afghan. Imay still give it a border of black. New Yorker magazine included for scale.The pattern is called Chocolate Box in Jan Eaton's 200 Crochet Blocks, because she used browns for her sample. But surely there's another name for it that's not based on its colors but more on its structure. If anyone knows, please let me know.
In any case, I'm really happy with the way it turned out. There's a little bit of yarn left over, a few yards here and there. Those I'll save for another afghan or maybe I'll make them up into flowers for embellishing some future project like some knit and felted purses.
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Ready for the Guests
Today 12 of Husband's family and friends from Madison, WI and Buffalo, NY are coming for the weekend. Brother-in-law is running the Peachtree Road Race of July 4.
Mother-in-law, B-i-l, and his wife will be staying at our place. So Husband has been cleaning and scrubbing for weeks. The result:
Our place will most likely never be this clean again.
This is what the refrigerator looks like now. Please know that this is NOT how our refrigerator usually looks. We don't normally have a zillion beers in there. Not pictured: the 40+ bottles of our second batch of homebrew beer.
Here's the schedule:
Today: The Madison crew, Husband's immediate family, arrives at 4pm today. The Buffalo crew, the extended family and friends, arrive at 9pm.
Tomorrow: I take Husband's family to the Georgia Aquarium for the afternoon, Husband and his mother will go food shopping and fill up the rest of the refrigerator. Then we all, including my own Brother One, will convene at our place for dinner. And probably drink all that beer. Well, we are talking about 15 people.
Saturday: Brother-in-Law runs the Peachtree Road Race, the other 14 of us go watch him. After race lunch at the Varsity, home of hotdogs, burgers, and more salt and calories than you can count. Not sure what the afternoon holds, probably a nap. Reconvene at our place for dinner and fireworks. We're up on the 23rd floor, facing Centennial Olympic Park and should have a great view of the fireworks.
Sunday: everyone goes home.
Monday: Husband's goes to court for trial. Husband's an attorney and will be there representing client. I may take Monday off. Not sure yet.
Let the festivities begin! Hope everyone has a fun and safe holiday.
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